What is better: Falling in love or Staying in love

What is better: Falling in love or staying in love.

Staying in love is better than falling in love because if you staying in love; you will have more stability in your relationship; you can offer more love to your boyfriend or girlfriend; you can be a lot happy because in the relationship don´t exist the obsession;you don't blind for an ilusion and too you will be more sure of your relationship.